16. Climate Grief, Eco-anxiety, and Loving a world in Turmoil – with Dr. Britt Wray
SYNOPSIS:
A vitally necessary and beautiful episode on the emotional terrain of climate grief, loss, sadness, anxiety, and all the ways we can cope either maladaptively or adaptively to this challenging moment in time.
This is a deeply intimate conversation that makes the case for allowing ourselves to ‘feel it all’, because from the depth of feeling comes the power of action, hope, resilience, and community. If we ignore the reality of this escalating mental health crisis, we are turning our backs on the vast potential that can emerge on the other side of initiation. We discuss different frameworks for processing climate anxiety – practical resources, approaches, and philosophical underpinnings of a phenomenon that is sweeping the world, especially amongst youth populations.
Dr Britt Wray is arguably one of the world’s most esteemed and loved researchers on this topic, having published the seminal viral newsletter and newly released bookGeneration Dread: Finding Purpose in an Age of Climate Crisis. She is now Director Special Initiative of the Chair on Climate Change and Mental Health in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences of Stanford Medicine advancing pioneering research and approaches in the field with communities facing the stark reality of ecological and social breakdown.
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QUOTES:
There is a deep belittlement of emotions in our culture.
When we acknowledge our own complicity, we experience anxiety, ambivalence, shame, guilt. And it's painful. And instead of sitting with those emotions, — earning how to name them, allowing them to be there long enough that their insights can emerge — we thwart them.
We really need to be compassionate with ourselves and each other, and create supportive spaces to sit with the discomfort and the uncertainty about how horrific this may become.
You know what? No matter how far against the wall you're pushed, there is always something more to fight for. It doesn't ever disappear. And you don't know what you're going to create when you come together in community and fight for your existence. So many possibilities emerge that you could not have foreseen at the moment of being in rock bottom.
We also cannot foresee all the beautiful, wonderful potentials in our midst, and ways of creating islands of sanity and resilience.
It is our task to create new norms for experiencing grief together. And there is so much inspiring history that can show us how great the co-benefits can be for the movement itself and not just for people's own psycho-spiritual development.
It is fluid. You can move quickly. It's not about never being in all joy or never being in all grief, but sometimes you're actually able to, in a very kind of bittersweet sense, touch both simultaneously.
If we restrain ourselves out fear of feeling the grief — so much so that we cannot explore it, cannot dive in — then we are also muted on the side of joy and love and connection in almost equal parameter.
What does it mean to work with community members who guide a process of co-creating a community-minded healing intervention for climate traumas and distress?
SHOW LINKS & RESOURCES
MOST COMPLETE RESOURCE: Lifeworlds Resource Page https://www.lifeworld.earth/resources/climate-grief
Britt’s Website https://www.brittwray.com/
Britt’s book Generation Dread: Finding Purpose in an Age of Climate Crisis
Britt’s first book Rise of the Necrofauna - The Science, Ethics, and Risks of De-Extinction
Joanna Macey: World as Lover, World as Self - https://www.amazon.com/World-Lover-Self-Courage-Ecological/dp/188837571X
Seminal article from Edwards & Buzzell (2008): The Waking Up Syndrome
Blanche Verlie (2022 book, open access): Learning to Live with Climate Change
Good Grief Network 10-Steps to Personal Resilience & Empowerment in a Chaotic Climate
Elizabeth Bechard's Parenting in a Changing Climate
Psychotherapist Jo McAndrews's talk on supporting children in the face of climate change.
Martin Shaw - We Are In The Underworld And We Haven’t Figured It Out Yet https://medium.com/@schoolofmyth/we-are-in-the-underworld-and-we-havent-figured-it-out-yet-5d48d2c988aa
Climate Psychiatry Alliance https://www.climatepsychiatry.org/
Learning to Die in the Anthropocene: Reflections on the End of a Civilization - Roy Scranton https://www.amazon.com/Learning-Die-Anthropocene-Reflections-Civilization/dp/0872866696?ots=1&tag=thneyo0f-20&linkCode=w50
CREDITS
Cover Photo: Midsummer Eve Celebration, Ukraine